How to Choose a Safe Nickname

Short answer: Pick a name that reveals nothing real: no surname, birth year, town, workplace or name you use elsewhere online.

What to avoid

Real names, initials plus birth year, your neighbourhood, school, employer or usernames you use on other sites. Each can be used to find you.

Two unrelated words, or a made-up name that has no link to your life. Short and easy to type is a bonus.

Do not reuse a nickname from social media or gaming. A unique name stops people from linking accounts.

You can change or retire a nickname whenever you like. If a name feels exposed, start fresh.

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Joining is typically free. Pick a vibe, say hi and leave whenever you like. Adults 18+ only.

Further reading: FTC: romance scams. See also our safety basics and FAQ.